Preparing

We spent the afternoon and evening with the family at the hospital. There has been no real improvements with Cindy's condition. The Herceptin does not seem to be effecting her. She wasn't opening her eyes or anything. The boys and Jack met with Pastor Mark to start thinking about arrangements. The doctors will reevaluate her on Monday. There might be nothing more that they can do. The family is preparing for that.

This is crushing to all of us. It is also really hard to see her in the state that she is in. We cling to the fact that Cindy will be in no more pain and in a better place. She will be reunited with her mother, her father, her sister, and God. We would like to keep her here, but it seems as if she is being called home.

We spent the evening at the Graeler's house for a good meal and great companionship. Today we talked a lot about the changes and how we can keep her memory alive. Through all of this, the family has come together and friends have come to support. That is the silver lining... and I think that Cindy would want us to see that. Family and friends are what matter most.